STUCK but not dead in the water

Dorothy Parker, a twenties wit, wrote:

"Woman wants monogamy
man delights in novelty
love is woman's moon and sun
man has other forms of fun
woman lives but in her lord
count to ten and man is bored
With this the gist and sum of it,
what earthly good can come of it??"

Way I see it, earth puts us here in matter, we are soulular spirit, essence of God, free, perfect, uncontaminated and true. But down HERE on earth, EDEN is dualistic, animal magnetism lords over us. Woman is tempted to buy into a flashy man. Man is tempted TO MOVE ALL OVER. Then after marriage, Woman gets comfy on her duff. She sinks into the goose down in even the most fragile, negligible relationship! Man finds lacks, he goes after thrills on the outside of the marriage.

We succumb to the physical temptation. The mind cooperates. The wisdom within may see, it may sense danger, but the cave is warm. there's the temptation to just sit. To stay in a relationship with hairline fractures. STUCK!Self medicate with some new habit. For women, shopping and TV. For men, younger partners.

                                
                             He doesn't love me the way I love him.

If this has happened to you, WHAT is required is just the ability to see. NOT TO DO. BUT TO SEE. See what's going on. God will kick in and suddenly start to build events based on what you SEE. No need to scream, try to reform him, threaten him get angry, fight or do irrational divorces, stranding the kids in a bad school district with no chance of college. Build on  what you have. Be grateful for what you 'attracted' as that's what is the sum total of your past.  You picked it, for a lesson for a challenge. Now you learned the lesson so be upbeat and try to ENVISION a new better tomorrow and God will BUILD you  a new tomorrow. Maybe today.

And hey, as you see that a lot of women are STUCK, picked the wrong dude,  the husband's a dud, lots of children depend on this dud dude and Mommy of course has no career or income.......do not get INTO  a relationship with hairline fractures in the first place. Life is made of choices. Each choice has built into it, obvious signs of HARMONY or DISHARMONY. When I'm at a party and I see an antique chair that's barely standing? I don't know about you but I don't sit down in it!

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