Dorothy Parker, a twenties wit, wrote:
"Woman wants monogamy
man delights in novelty
love is woman's moon
and sun
man has other forms
of fun
woman lives but in
her lord
count to ten and
man is bored
With this the gist
and sum of it,
what earthly good
can come of it??"
Way I see it, earth puts us here in matter, we are spirit, free, perfect, uncontaminated and true. But down HERE on earth, EDEN is dualistic, animal magnetism lords over us. Man is tempted. TO MOVE ALL OVER. Woman gets comfy on her duff. She sinks into the goose down in even the most fragile, negligible relationship!
We succumb to the physical temptation. The mind cooperates. The wisdom within may see, it may sense danger, but the cave is warm. there's the temptation to just sit. To stay in a relationship with hairline fractures. STUCK!
He doesn't love me the way I love him.
WHAT is required is just the ability to see. NOT TO DO. BUT TO SEE. See what's going on. God will kick in and suddenly start to build events based on what you SEE. No need to do irrational dumps. Build as well on what you have. Be grateful for what you 'attracted' as that's what is the sum total of your past. BUT ENVISION a new tomorrow and God will BUILD you a new tomorrow.
And hey, don't get IN to a relationship with hairline fractures in the first place. Life is made of choices. Each choice has built into it, obvious signs of HARMONY or DISHARMONY. When I'm at a party and I see an antique chair that's barely standing? I don't know about you but I don't sit down in it!