YUK. UGH. ICK                     HELLO CUTIE                I THINK I'M IN LOVE!

Twice I fell in love stoned. WAY WAY WRONG MAN. First was Fundador Brandy, had four children in Mexico with him. Second was grass. Spent thirty loving him. Neither was very nice to me so today, I found this article online. This sentence caught my eye:  "Research into the chemicals that control love, lust and attachment could eventually result in drugs that would make you fall in love and bond with another person." WHAT? I thought? THESE ALREADY EXIST: POT, BOOZE, & PSYCHDELICS. They make you very amused by another's comedy, very touched by their life story, very absorbed in them. AND can lead you to get involved with a person who has very little substance or worth. Cuz every monkey has a soul and you see down through their ape-ness to the GOD SOUL and you will love them. But you will wake up later with a jerk and his children!

On the other hand, some people would actually take a first date on booze or drugs JUST to be able to feel love. They believe they cannot love, have rarely if ever FELT love. Their heart closed down some time in the long path after BABYHOOD where we just adore Mummy and Daddy. They say "It's not my fault --it's a chemical imbalance in my brain." They believe it as nobody remembers the day the heart shut down. And on dates they get loaded. The article mentions that:

"People often rationalize their inability to have long-term relationships with psychological reasons -- you know, they're inadequate or whatever, or they lack ego," Professor Carl E. Wood of Melbourne's Monash University tells me in an online interview. "But it may just be a problem in their brain chemistry and when they strike the right chemical mix they are able to bond and form long-term relationships."

Real Brain chemicals do get secreted when you do YOGA, or meditation where you screen out verbal thought and retire back to the SOUL LEVEL. But that's not what the scientist meant. According to Wood, research into the chemicals that control love, lust and attachment could eventually result in some future line of love potion drugs that would make you fall in love and bond with another person. But, before you run to your doctor to write you a prescription, my research told me that we're not quite there yet-- Robert T. Francoeur, a professor of human sexuality and author of The International Encyclopedia of Sexuality says that neuroscientists have been studying the chemical makeup of love, lust and bonding using something called functional magnetic-resonance imaging (FMRI) for years now. "We have some insights, but no complete explanations so far," Francoeur tells me over the phone from his home in New Jersey.

They do know, for example, why you suddenly become as excited as a schoolgirl, get butterflies in your stomach and can't eat or sleep when you first fall in love. "Natural amphetamines are triggered in the brain and do what any natural or synthetic amphetamine does," explains Francoeur. "They give you that hyped-up feeling." So basically, you're on speed.

If you're lucky when your brain eventually comes down, endorphins kick in. "These are the natural opiates, like serotonin" says Francoeur, "these give us the feelings of relaxation and security that come with long-term love." Well if it's endorphins, we know that RUNNING, jogging creates them. Exercise too.

Combine endorphins with oxytocin, otherwise known as the "bonding" or "cuddling" hormone, and, tah-dah, you've got a long-term relationship. But Francoeur adds that while you can isolate the chemicals involved, it is harder to determine why amphetamine-fueled lust turns into more relaxed long-term bonding in some cases and not others. 

A lot of it has to do with our "love map" says Francoeur, "a unique, idiosyncratic sequence of events that determine who and what we are attracted to. Some of this is encoded in the brain before birth. Other things like sexual orientation and gender identity are part of it. Even the image of your first love can contribute to your ideal-lover template." I found that true. (This poster, Anita.) I always liked BOGIE in "THE BAREFOOT CONTESSA" I bonded with that. And GREG PECK in "DUEL IN THE SUN" Everytime I met a man like those two,I was off to the races in love before we said Hello.

And of course that triggers the interest of the man. As " there are pheromones, chemicals our bodies release into the air to make people go, "Hubba hubba." While scientists are still unclear about how we detect and respond to pheromones, entrepreneurs have made a killing hawking their magic in musky perfumes."

Francoeur says that while they have been able to identify pheromones and chemically reproduce them in a lab, there is no proof that slathering yourself in pheromone cologne will attract an endless number of women. "There is no research," he says. "People claim to have done studies, but I've never see them in any journal."
 

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OK, back to my way of thinking, this is Anita Sands, the poster of this article and mother of four and astrologer to the stars of Hollywood, to whom she gives LOVE ADVICE...says: There are definitely conditions under which the brain is more open to love. The excitement of a big party, celebration, holiday event and group synergy, then for ‘date night,  the ‘timeless’ mood inspired by relaxants like wine, grass, LSD, mescaline put the ‘editing/ filtering/ wary’ brain nicely out of commission for a while. There is no sense of hurry. The emotional, intuitive apparatus functions better this way. Feelings rise, softly, slowly, bud, grow and flower. Also, so will curiosity, the search for deeper answers. So a Q&A or enquiry done then is easily accomplished which one rarely DOES to another and providing you aren't confessing a love of snakes, or a history of burglary, the two on the first date can become mesmerized. One can fall into deep ‘like’ with the person on coffee which activates the dominant brain lobe, but on relaxants, the sleeping side of brain awakens. Emotions flood us and getting a CRUSH is possible. The other person simultaneously will bond with you. The inhibiting filtering out brain is deadened. Serotinin and endorphins flow. I hope that no subhumans are reading this, no sociopaths, no wolves as they could figure out how to use drugs and booze to kidnap hearts.

It is important to be sober, for the very reason that your life can take a very big detour into a NoWoman's Land where you're raising some miscreant's babies for him. And that takes years. I spent 35 years from first birth til last kid left home. Gals? NEVER DRINK or smoke pot on a date. Order Virgin Marys, not too icy, very spicy work. Non alcoholic Margaritas. But not even a single beer. This is your life and future we're talking about. And your children's.

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