HOW TO MARRY A BILLIONAIRE ...it is more what you DON'T do..than what you DO!A single gal wrote me today saying she was coming to Los Angeles because she wanted SUNNY WEATHER. I wrote her back: "I don't feel L.A. is a good move for any girl.
I tackled this theme many times in the 80 chapter "HOW TO MARRY A BILLIONAIRE" material. L.A. SUN BURNS your skin to a cancerous mass and is the worst place to look for a man. For over a hundred years, the greatest beauties have migrated here, and their children and grandchildren are still here and are triple digit gorgeous. GREAT beauties are mudwrestling here.
ALL have had their hearts broken by film industry execs who treat them angrily as a kind of FEMALE SMOG, to be breathed in but barely endured. They date ya, they have affairs with ya then they find a new beauty, the old one is treated like dirty kleenex. Non-Industry corporate guys have been able to operate like sharks in schools of guppies. Though the ME TOO ERA may stop some of that. But one hundred plus years of beauties moving here, there are so many gorgeous girls, they give themselves away if the guy IS IN THE INDUSTRY.
L.A. is a heartbreaker. EVEN FILM stars are so insecure they go nuts on downers. I have worked for an Oscar nominated super star for 7 yrs and she self medicated her way into being mentally unhinged.
In this town, beautiful, A-list starlets, even a few A-list film stars --are being used and abused by arrogant, film industry guys. And if you're Joan of Arc and want to do good for the planet thru philanthropy, know this. THERE ARE NO BILLIONAIRES in L.A except Spielberg. The rest of the men are not really rich. The super rich Blue Bloods of Wall Street consider the whole place corrupt and tacky. They're right. FRISCO, HOUSTON, NYC, DENVER are the best local bets. London, Paris, Geneva, Zurich are the stomping ground of the real deal, elegant, blue bloods. GERMANY is full of them.
A whole new group of billionaires has arisen on Planet earth -- the MERCHANT PRINCES, who are wealthier than Wall Street, who only manages their money. They are in huge corporations. So my constant advice to put on a great suit, pumps and walk your resume thru corporations daily, still holds. Fly to different cities and spend a week in each walking that resume thru.
The only good thing one can say about a career in SHOW business is that it will give you 23 hours a day to educate yourself, to check out BERLITZ TAPES at library and to learn to speak multiple languages. SHOW business interviews (cattle calls,) interferes with a regular forty hour job and it interferes with RESUME walking whichis the most productive thing a beauty can do to meet men. So maybe you should get out of show biz.
If you are a born wit, or a writer, meaning super intelligent, witty, a good researcher, maybe you should write scripts. You have more of a chance to sell a script than marry in L.A. And the chance of even getting a script optioned here is one in a thousand. (HOW TO PRODUCE A GREAT SCRIPT.) But Resume walking and great, witty conversation in the halls of Fortune 500 corporations with the Execs who spot you, is still the most productive job-related pastime you can do. Monster Com will work but as you are beautiful, it has to be done in person.
Hollywood is not here you want to be. In fact, it is the very SORROWS of HOLLYWOOD that propelled me into teaching. Nobody else asks, but I do ask myself, "WHY DO I DO THE WORK teaching show biz wannabe's to get out of Hollywood, go somewhere that BILLIONAIRE corporations exist & MARRY WELL while they can? (i.e. during those few years of spectacular beauty?) What bee is in my bonnet? "
It's really about me. I was uncontrollable in my desire to study acting, go on interviews, nail TV jobs as nutty about that as I was in love with unworthy men, time and time again. I loved folk guitarists and acting coaches, ARTISTS writers who were bisexual and hid that from me. A casting director once, Definitely strange. He never married. I loved Men who were indigent. But all men who were Used to the Hollywood loony women throwing themselves at them. SPANIARDS who would never pay child support or alimony yet I married that one, got beat up, gun pointed at my temple so I had to yank my four kids out, drive back to USA and live in fear of kidnapping if not assasination forever after. And by a guy who wouldn't write his sons a single letter,ever.
Then there's the matter of that rich, cheap, married S.O.B. screenwriter who'd had fifty yrs in hollywood to learn its weird ways, who toyed with me over thirty years, politely, so politely that I couldn't see that hundreds of women were with him on other days and nights. ANd maybe even MEN, I'm still scratching my head about that one but one day we're sailing around in his yacht and in the bedroom, I find a wrist watch only a rough trade He-Whore would have worn.
So I TOOK my life and that of my four kids and TRASHED THEM. I survived and raised four kids doing astrology here in hollywood, 15$ an hr, maybe got four clients a month. Now it's 25$ an hour, barely eke out a living. No SOcial Security for me as there weren't enough quarters of year after year of work. No hubby's pension, ever. The only way to get a pension is to be married to an American taxpayer for more than ten years.
Daily, I go to the dumpster outside the cheap, barrio super market. Yesterday 3 bell peppers, 3 hot peppers, l eggplant. A REAL FIND! last week, 6 dozen eggs. THAT never before happened! I was in ecstasy, I fed my thirty cats with omlets for a few days.
Most beautiful girl in HOLLYWOOD and I endure POVERTY that would SHOCK!. I was a film star, William Morris my agent, biggest agent in all show biz, I starred in my first film, Diary of a High School Bride, went on to do Bonanza, Maverick, Dobie Gillis, acting with Warren Beatty. (I'm in that new biography Finstead did on him, my photo with Warren,) did all the tv shows. GIVE ME A for fantasy but I did not know reality.
And I was a genius, very smart, IQ 180. Took me straight A's to get into UCLA theatre arts. Freshman yr, they tested 9000 freshman for a week, daily, all day, Picked 30 of us, told us we tested out as geniuses, gave us stack passes, vocational counseling, said we should be in science. DUMMIE here could have gone into Psychiatry but I quit school to act in moooovies. AND SELF IMMOLATED quickly after. Get what I'm saying. YOU CAN become a billionaire's wife. IF YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL take the training and stay away from L.A. The seminar is free. STAY AWAY FROM L.A!
I hope that some girl somewhere who reads these words can rein in that dumb part of herself, that impetuous, hot, unfocused part that burns up like a meteorite before it smashes twenty feet into the ground.
I tried to say all that in my daily CRAIGS LIST ads until CRAIG started to CHARGE l0% for any SHOW BIZ AD. I told gals to read one chapter at LUCK IN LOVE WEBSITE where I freely admit I was given many chances to rescue myself from my HOLLYWOOD TRAGIC PARABOLA. I first fled to Mexico and had four children with a Basque Spaniard. I returned to LA and a LAWYER loved me and my four babies. GOLDFARB. I dated him for a year but I rejected him as I preferred the married, sexually ambiguous, cheating, lying elderly sophisticated screenwriter. Married men are the MOST STUPID tack you can take short of lemming leaping off a Santa Monica Cliff.
I AM NEARLY STARVING TODAY, thank God that local markets pile the stale stuff on back porch of market before it goes in dumpster and I can find wilted salad, onions by the dozen, limes, pomegranates.. I have written cook books called DUMPSTER COOKERY and The POORHOUSE GOURMET. Ten things you can do to a Bent Can.
I have no medical coverage whatsoever, at first, because Soc Security Admin demanded geriatrics pay 80$ a month for a healthplan type insurance policy so that I COULD see a doctor if something's wrong. Then when I lost THAT PLAN, and they gave free doc visits,I lost my CAR so short of hitchhiking, no way to doc.
As things stand, one can only get near death and go into an emergency room, and my pal who did it, waited 14 hours in USC COUNTY hosp (home of the Trojans) to be seen. No GERIATRIC in CALIFORNIA could see a dentist or optometrist while Schwarzeneggar was Gov. THERE was no Medicare for teeth and eyeglasses whatsoever!. Also SOC SECURITY checks my bank acct! If I make a single dime, they take it out of my monthly check! I'm pushing 79 (Next Feb) so old fillings and teeth are disintegrating. My DOLLAR glasses have no stems and are fastened to my hair by STRING! And my disabled check of 500$ stands in the way of me getting food stamps. I AM OVER POVERTY LIMITS with 500$ a month. My rent is a mere 1600$
Yet as a kid I saw none of this coming! I married a foreigner with no pension or alimony. HE's still in Mexico. I never worked a real job in my life so never accrued Soc Security money in my own acct during the years that I raised those four kids. I continued my dumb INTENSE LOVE HABITS in the NON MARRIAGE zone, remaining the true blue sweetheart to the married screenwriter. He never brought so much as an apple to my house. NOT A GRAIN OF FOOD unless inadvertently thru one of mommy's doggie bags she brought home and stuffed in the fridge for the kiddies before I took him in my bedroom. I WAS HOOKED on this guy.
SIGN ME IQ 180 and damn STUPID and very intensely focused on stopping all the other beauties on this planet from falling face forward into the snake pit of their own craziness. GET A GRIP.STUDY YOGA as it reins in the crazed nature. What city are you in? There are KUNDALINI YOGA teachers in every city of America and Europe who can stop your chakras from running away from you like a stallion running for its stable. I have a list from YOGI BHAJAN's group, the kids in white turbans.
Your enemy is THE ID, Freud called it, runs for its favorite stimulants. HIGH DRAMA, HIGH ROMANCE, SEXUAL THROES. PASSION. And guess what, the Greek root of the word 'passion' is SUFFERING! Don't drag your kids, even if not born yet, thru all this! GET A GRIP!
I'm not saying marry rich blindly. EVEN RICH, SMART men can be moral cowards, reprobates. Even idiots. I was very fond of bi-coastal George once. I met him on the plane between Acapulco and Mexico City. His New York Pad was just divine. His Bel-Air home, huge, mansorial! His dinner table really amazed me. Right out of the relationship it turned out --for what went on there. Or didn't go on.
All his blue blood pals DID was talk about great restaurants in Provence. They were sybarites. This went on for a long time many dinners there, until I realized they were all dithering idiots. Trivial as pet rocks. And about as deep as the newspaper used to line canary cages which actually could be hundreds of times more informational. SO even in High Society, sniff the wind for signs of idiocy. It hides right under the perky conversation.
CHOOSE carefully. Watch the clues. Here's how life and marriage is. Imagine that God will come down and gave you one ripe, in the shell-walnut when you turn l8. And he will say "here, little girl, this is the rest of your life, inside this nut. Plant this nut well, You and your babies will live under its shade, you will eat of its nut-fruits for life. Would you go plant that nut on an icy mountain peak? On a wave swept beach? Or Next to a dangerous river which flooded regularly? No, you'd think carefully about that single nut which obviously held the key to your future. Why be any less careful picking a mate? DATING is the key word for mating. CAREFUL dating. DUTY DATING. Curbing your own impulsiveness every step of the way.
And hey, don;'t worry. If you fail, I've got a great supermarket with a DUMPSTER with a lot of onions and pomegranates. You can make a great meal for your kids out of those!
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