THE VALUE OF GOING YIN AT AN INSTANT’s NOTICE!

How does a girl find love? By being girlish, yin, sweet, passive. If you're WONDER WOMAN and an AMAZON, you get YIN MEN who are takers. Who expect YOU to do it all. That would not be a happy life when there are PREGNANCIES and CHILD RAISING and you need a WINNER GUY. So from the first moment you two meet, let him SHOW you what he's made of.

WHEN a man doesn't notice you, eludes you, do not make a move. Don't be the one to start things off. He is deficient in YANG, you do not WANT HIM! If a man has quirks, if he tries to push your buttons, when he fights you, or has a different view, evades you, don't you step in and criticize him. SIMPLY GET THE HELL OUT OF DODGE. When a NEAR BEAUX doesn’t call, --- don’t MAKE A MOVE, TRY TO PULL HIM CLOSER. DO NOT REACH OUT TO him ONE BIT. Don't succumb to EMOTION LEADING TO MOTION. LEARN to go YOGIC MEDITATION GEAR or YIN in ONE instant. In a fight, just smile,nod, abandon your position, nod some more. Take his hand and kiss it. Then, after he takes you home, disappear off his radar.Don’t answer the phones. Don’t be in when he knocks. MYSTERY Enshrouded in ENIGMA wrapped in ice. If you forgive and give, he will need forgiving and over the years, end up UNPARDONABLE.

DO NOT STICK LIKE GLUE. Stop that 'STAND BY YOUR MAN" stuff. Dr. Pat Allen who wrote "GETTING TO I DO" says there "Never GIVE to a man. Stupid women GIVE. Smart women take." I'd amend that to say, they are receptive. They don't PUSH to get stuff, they lightly describe a need but very briefly. If he doesn't get it, GET OUT. He would not be a good father to the children that might come.

I mean, either a GUY WILL see and do as pleases you .. or he won’t! If he is not a pleaser, a listener, a giver, better you know now. And if they can’t won’t or don’t, you sure don’t CARE or FRET because then they’ll do what they’re doing even worse. By letting someone be himself.. eventually either you’ll see what he’s made of and LEAVE or MARRY HIM and get a passel of destroyed children out of it.
 

Even in the courtship period, while you're deciding, MEN ARE DIFFERENT FROM WOMEN. The more you ignore a man, the more they’re attracted to you. And if this man is in love, TRUST that fact and just stay in YIN non movement.

The more you don’t go after them, the more a healthy, WINNER guy, a YANG GUY will want to come after you.‘THE MORE YOU ARE STILL the more they are active! Those are the secrets of attraction and repulsion. What you go after runs away from you every time. YOUR YANG creates his being YIN. YOUR YIN creates his being YANG. There’s a wonderful old PERFUME company ad that reads, ‘want him to be more of a man? Try being more of a woman.”

What you seduce, entice, WONDERFUL WORD, ENTICE..... and “allow” to come to you CAME UNDER ITS OWN POWER -- that person will never leave! YOU DO THE WORK, they may come for a second but reluctantly. They come with attitude. 

NO YANG MAN forgives a pushy GIRL. Screen Eddie Murphy's RAW. They will use you then abuse you for gitback. THE GREAT Women know that and use that rule of “WANT HIM TO BE MORE OF A MAN? THEN BE MORE OF A WOMAN.Want him to act? Then be still, silent, sweet, soft. INVISIBLE, quiet.NOT lurching up on his radar. That frightens him worst. DISAPPEAR! 

SINCE TIME IMMEMORIAL, soft sweet silent women like this Victorian Gibson Girl, will catch the greatest strongest most powerful men! If they don’t chase or want that man, THAT MAN WILL want them. HIS INTEREST gets  captured, --and that first kiss proves it, -- her stillness puts him INTO A FURY of wanting her.

A Man can use the same thing with a woman. The more HE wants the woman, salivates over her, the more she doesn’t want HIM! As soon as he’s not paying attention to that woman, and she begins to believe that he does not care, she wants to know HIM. The girl will want HIM.”

A WISE MAN SAID, THE LASTING LOVE AFFAIRS are where both people fell in love at first sight. So be especially wary of any relationship that starts off with the man fairly oblivious to you. I spent thirty years loving a man whom I met at a party. He was with a group. HE NEVER LOOKED at me after the introduction, not once! Lost thirty years on that bad boy.  And today, to make a living and feed 4 children, I do astrology and write up the RULES OF ROMANCE that I SHOULD HAVE KNOWN. I make sure those rules go into your hands. Your mind. Ferinstance, today I was just musing on ALARM SIGNS.

TEN SIGNS YOU SHOULD GET OUT REAL QUICK       

1.) You find yourself striving to please.. kitchen, bedroom...calling him, paying for tickets, going Dutch.. Encouraging him to talk endlessly about his life which he does in an ENTERTAINING MANNER which can get you stuck with a narcissist for YEARS! Listen but don't ask questions. NEVER BE CURIOUS. REMEMBER THE MYTH OF CUPID AND PSYCHE (Venus' dear SON.)

2.) The guy has never asked you a single thing about your life, not a question about now or then or future. ZIP! If he is not curious to know the real you, GET OUT FAST!

3.) Errr. What? See, I'm slow. Took me 80 yrs to get this much so Help me out. YOU Give me the SIGNS to GET OUT which you consider important.

Meanwhile ... HERE IS A QUOTE FROM the MASTER JULES: “Maybe the easiest thing in the world to understand and very difficult to get clear, see the paradox, the enigma is the PHYSICAL LAW of “Resistance”. Do not resist what is in front of you, whether it’s information, knowledge or clues. Cultivate an open loving, peaceful, surrendered mind and being. Until someone surrenders to a music teacher or a spiritual discipline or to a massage, until you surrender to that, you cannot reap the fruits, the enjoyment, the lesson and the result from this teacher or this therapy. If you are on a massage table and tense up, your body doesn’t relax and let go and surrender. You get nothing out of the massage. If it’s information your brain is processing when you’re watching another person, do not resist that information. Letting go and being a PROCESSING GOD who is receptive, OPEN, in the moment and fully watchful and enjoying what he sees so that his brain does not turn off and get into denial…. That is the preface for the real work”. 

The Master Jules said that and about two hundred other discourses on love. Wish you’d met him while he was alive. I have 200 tapes, have transcribed 50. Files are all online at masterjules.net First twenty or so that I transcribed and edited are at THE MASTER JULES WEBSITE, GREATEST PHILOSOPHY EVER WRITTEN.

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