HOW TO START A MOONLIGHTING BIZ in the SINGLES WORLD


SINGLES- related businesses are lucrative. The main reason is that the passions beating in the hearts of the 18-35 set make it the single biggest high-spending market segment. This is a lively group, always ready to put the dollar on the line to find true love. In California, the shameless weather makes the season of adolescence last longer. The clients for the love market are hot until age sixty! So it’s a big, passionate, urgent market sector though many might allege moral turpitude!

 

Your ‘preparation’ AGENDA might be to start small, build slowly, gaining a super NAME LIST with extensive shaking hands, introducing yourself and networking. But I know first hand that you cannot sally forth into the world without something you are PEDDLING ! There’s nothing to talk about! So Do the easiest business first. Create a singles party done once a month at a local café!
 

When you see how easy it is to bring in fifty to seventy people to a singles party…… half of whom (THE MALES) pay a hefty l0$ to come to the party, you are building mailing lists, email lists. 

 

Next, make a separate list of the beautiful girls with whom you have a rapport. You will create a MATCHMAKING service for them. This will be lucrative. The girls do not pay. Men do. Dianne Bennett, L.A’s best matchmaker, charges $1,000 to provide the busy executive with 10 dates of his choice. They are chosen from photographs. Other matchmakers in the fieldcharge $1,200 for a year’s worth of dates.  She did so well giving parties that she bought  a mansion and converted it into a fancy hotel.

 

Dianne finds these beautiful girls by partying around L.A., eating out a lot, and going to gyms, healthfood stores where she spotted thousands of beauties. She’s outgoing, went right up them and told them what she did. How she could get them dates, and how all she needed was a digital headshot, a portrait. She soon collected thousands of digital photos with phones, bios, preferences….

 

In the black community it might be different. Black men are lively, social, have no trouble finding their own women. Whites that she worked with were kind of shy and uptight. Each SINGLES TYCOON has to feel it out, 

 

I would appreciate for the sake of this article that any differences between any of the singles groups be pointed out to me, Asian, black dating, Hindu. I am not sure the same rules apply. 

 

DIANNE is basically working with rich elderly men who want dates. These fellows can't attract beautiful women or initiate friendships as they aren’t cool. They're rich old shy, uptight and stuffy so they will not pick up girls at country western bars. 

 

HER POWERS of persuasion are also called into play when she has to talk the beautous gals into this date --saying' he's a doctor, he's kind, he's well-mannered, etc." and then, when that doesn’t work, “he's worth ten million!”

 

So think of it as a ladder, parties that provides you with thousands of clients for the MATCHMAKING. 

My friend Dianne gave a few lectures at the LEARNING ANNEX, on “HOW TO MARRY A MILLIONAIRE” but she didn’t do WORKSHOPS AND SEMINARS. I watched Dr. Pat Allen do that. 

 

I think a Jungian psychologist is required. This is a sexist school of psychiatry started by Carl Jung. They believe in macho men and feminine gals. A woman is a little girl, a man cherishes her. She in turn RESPECTS the man. That's what Jungians teach but you will have your work cut out for you to find one in your town. A few exist in NYC, L.A. Because of the appelitive JUNGIAN, THEY takes themselves real seriously.

They often are full out SHRINKS, and won’t do this kind of low rent seminar. MAYBE if you’re lucky you’ll find one who will….but not to worry, among the family psychologists in your town, many are unconsciously JUNGIANS.In other words, they are not WOMAN’s libbers. They believe in love and marriage, feminine women, masculine, dominating men. Now following that path cranks up the magnetism and gives you a mate faster. The Amazon gal... well it's hard to get her married. HARDER, maybe is the better word.

 

HOW DO I START THIS BUSINESS? Well, not very costly at all. Meeting cafe owners til you find one who goes for the idea of parties in his second room, and having your guests all drink at his bar. There's postcard mailing lists, or emails, even cheaper, Bulletin Boards, craigs list for publicity or sometimes Newspapers will add it to their social column. So far,  no expenses.  Matchmaking is a smart second step as it moves crowds of people thru your doors, they get to know you, trust you. When you are ready to have your first LOVE GURU SEMINAR, they’ll all show up! These are in conference rooms, lecture rooms, churches or hotel convention rooms. They fill up pretty well. I noted that Dr. Pat had l0 men to 100 women. I couldn’t figure out what the guys were doing there as the work was pointed at women and the rules don't transfer, exactly. They are backwards. Men have to cherish their little girls, be generous to them.

 

NOW, matchmaking well, that is the dark side.....as it's a meat market. On some subtle levels.

 

YOU HAVE portrait PHOTOS digital photos of gorgeous gals, you show them to the guys, there may be a bio. “I love sunsets, margaritas, Mel Gibson. And from such fragile hints guys actually pick a woman from the field. DIANNE goes to the gal, then, shows HIS PICTURE and sees if the girl still wants the date.

 

It's a dinner date. NOW my way of doing it would be 3 lunch dates before dinner. But I am not in this biz and i never give her my ideas. She wouldn’t see the value in this but I like the slow approach. THREE LUNCH DATES where the guy is courtly, smart, wittyI don’t care how OLD he is, a woman can fall in love! DINNER dates frankly scare women. It’s like a transaction, I buy you dinner and you put out.

 

So as quick as you can find your shrink, do the SEMINAR. I saw Dr Pat Allen's seminars, workshops whatever. She didn’t call them anything by the way. I call them SUCCESS IN LOVE seminar or RUTHLESS RULES OF ROMANCE TRAINING. Or LOVEAHOLICS ANONYMOUS. Names are important. The catchier they are, the more people remember to remember you….after they first hear your group spoken of.
 
 

You will deliver a product of worth. I can vouch for the fact SUCCESS IN LOVE SEMINARS would be useful to any girl with dating problems. I know, as a onetime college genius, at a college that took straight A’s, -- how STUPID even the so-called smart girl can be when it comes to love. 

 

I know firsthand how much help gals need. And what huge mistakes they can make WITHOUT that help. 

I know that if you do the teaching, the group work, matchmaking, seminars and parties for a while, you’re ready to court the radio stations and produce a local radio show with your LOVE GURU getting made into a media star. AND THAT is a million dollar business. (Rent the DOLLY PARTON ‘JAMES WOODS movie so you can see how almost any gal can take like a duck to radio!) 
 

THEN, do the BOOK. YOU need an original concept. “HE JUST DOESN’T WANT YOU” book was an original concept. It’s a big hit. Oprah had the writers on the air. 
 

Your shrink tapes or types. I can edit. My specialty is writing, making things very readable….. You get the NATIONAL LITERARY MARKETPLACE at the local library, get names and addresses of agents in NYC. By that time, your SHRINK will have Oprah wanting to put you on the show, know you, you'd have a book and a million bucks. Say, what city are you in? Cuz only a big city would support a growth plan like this!
 

NOW, if you fancy being the “love guru”, yourself, you should go for a psych degree during yrs you do this. What you earn in MATCHMAKING will pay tuition, books. By the time you've got a radio show, and a million bucks from the business, you also have a PHD.....and can do love therapy yourself at $150 an hour. Marriage counseling and all.

You have to get the great books on love, marriage, family life, courtship & ROMANCE and HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS: "Getting the Love You want" by Dr Harville Hendrix. (Oprah's love guy before PHIL) "Getting to I DO" by Dr. Pat Allen. "THE RULES." Unknown author. Videos etc, books by Dr. Barbara De Angelis, Dr. Laura Schlesinger’s books, the Men are from Mars, Women are from VENUS books.Dr. Phil., etc. I would love feedback on other titles so that I can add them here. Anita at ASTROLOGY AT EARTHLINK. NET
 

 

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