UNMARRIED AND PREGNANT?
And he told you that he doesn't want the child and will not marry you? Stop weeping for a second and let's analyze this in the cold light of reason. Just the facts, ma'am. Abortion is l00% free if you go to the state. You apply for AFDC fast. Get MEDICARE. Hit a clinic. This isn't child murder because there is no soul in the baby til sixth month when it kicks you from inside tummy. THAT is the soul coming in. That's many months off! Right now, that fetus is an inch long at best. It is just a SINGLE ounce of meat getting arranged and ready to be an 8 pound human. If this little morsel is in top shape later, at six months of pregnancy, then a great soul comes down into it, to light it up....BUT right now, there is no soul in it. That is the secret teaching from INDIA. Next, consider for a second what the genetic lineage to this child is....(as genes add up to a lot of our possibilities.) Let me suggest that the child is genetically identical to this heartless S.O.B romancer, liar, plunderer, meaning he comes from a line that has very little sensitivity, love, reverence, --none of the good qualities that animate humanity run in this SCHMO's DNA. So. why start a kid with such a genetic step backwards from the average Joe walking around? Go get the janitor, he's probably made of better genetic stuff!
Go find some sweet guy who's feeding the homeless, who thinks about global warming, Darfur and goes to activist groups, who pickets the government and go get pregnant with HIM. Avoid this non-activist guy and his million yr murky gene pool like the plague!
Now, we haven't even gotten to the big stuff: This guy doesn't adore you! As he doesn't worship the ground you walk on and he doesn't see you as SACRED and indulge YOUR whims. If you are SO DUMB that you CREATE A SITUATION where he has to be around....even if once a year on your child's birthday, you would be picking a thorny branch to hold in your hands for the next sixty yrs of your life, meaning.....at birthday and at Christmas, he gives no gifts to his child, not does he give a gift on the spiritual plane, the other 364 days of the year. He just sits there like a lump of clay on Thanksgiving, eats your turkey, shakes your new husband's hand and leaves, embarassing the whole group, making your kid want to crawl into an open sewer pipe. DO NOT DO that to your unborn CHILD!
All this crud can offer is a curled lip as he snidely shoots ugly words at you.because men never forgive the gal who makes them feel guilty ! And you and the kid will make him feel the itch of guilt like he's never felt it in his lifetime. That's cause for hate! He will lash out for sure!
But what's worse is, the poor, innocent child will see his/her so-called biological father has this tremendous distaste, disinterest. This attitude of disdain will program your child to believe a.) he's of a twisted branch of the tree of life and b.) to believe that there's something wrong with him or her that he's not worthy of love. And c.) what's worse, that image of unworthiness goes on and on and on, raining down on your baby, every time he sees Dad, a sixty year period of being emotionally destroyed by this creep.
Now, the important thing to factor in, for personal growth is... what was in your head and heart when you let him into your BODY? Just reckon truthfully with yourself, or you can confide in me, or confide in a girlfriend....Make a mental list. "He was so gorgeous, so hot. I hoped that he'd love me. I hoped we could get married. I recognized that he'd be a good provider." Make that list. Take a look at your reasons, now in the cold light of reason. And then when you see where you were standing, what you were doing, thinking, feeling, DO NOT EVER FEEL THAT AGAIN, don't ever DO that again.
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