TO A WIFE HELL BENT ON DIVORCE:

If your lawyer doesn't tell you about the many pensions and LAWS that favor WIVES, not mistresses,  single dating girls or divorcees, I WILL! Do you know the laws, the facts about lifelong Social security Pension for wives? Yep, after he hits 62, an ex husband yields up a pension. IF you were married TEN YEARS, not a day less! The pensions donít come in smaller sizes for short marriages. They just donít come period! Did your wonderful lawyer run by you the imminent possibility of inheritance laws changing, so that WIVES/ KIDS inherit much, much MORE? Did he mention the immense favor you'd do yourself and your children if you stick it out? No? Being a cynic, I would wonder if YOUR LAWYER weren't more interested in the lucrative divorce fees he will earn from this impending litigation ---than, say, your eventual well-being! Or your childrenís well being. These lawyers charge beaucoup bucks for litigation so they are NEVER interested in AVOIDING the courtroom, avoiding the paperwork. They are like fighter pitbulls who only feel good tearing up one anotherís throats and charging for it, of course that analogy doesn't hold as you and your mate are the ones torn up!

Still, letís call them the TRAINERS and exhibitors of fighting dogs. They profit from hate, war and bloodshed. They are not going to give each other peace tips or give the wives, husbands any anger management tips. No way! THEY WANT THE SCRIMMAGE!

We have to choose. Are we going to be thin-skinned and irritated at people
who aren't perfect...or develop our own tolerance and forgivingness to its
maximum potential?

Going in, you knew hubby wasn't perfect. But you loved that grungy cutie
enough to forgive those lacks and he loved you enough to give you half his
life. Thatís a lot. I never got that offer. Most women didnít or donít. GET
ON YOUR KNEES lady. I will be scrambling for a dollar until Iím 90. No
social security, no nuttin! You and your children will be taken care of for
life. Pensions, property, inheritances. Up the wazoo.

You know, coming in the door, God says to you, Sweetheart, I give you this
one walnut. Choose a site very carefully taking into consideration water,
soil and sun. If you find the perfect permanent site, plant it. Water it
over the course of decades. Till the soil well there, fertilize the area.
This is a magic tree which will grow large in your lifetime and it will
feed you and your babies, it will shade you from the harsh sun, be a roof
in winter. Take care of this walnut tree. Yet you at this point in your
life have a hatchet in hand? GO FIGURE!

ALL men have occasional lapses l00% of them. Rich ones 200%. Reality isn't
perfect. Dicks arenít perfect. BUT reality and dicks came from GOD. Our
insistence on perfection DID too. It's a good thing but donít go overboard.
Thatís neurotic. HEAVEN isnít down here. To create groups or teams where
ALL MEMBERS agree beforehand on such permanent lofty perfection as a 'norm'
is great. To create those groups and alliances and unions is done with
AGREEMENTS made 'GOING IN'. A marriage vow is kind of like an agreement
that both will strive for Godly perfection. Tripping, accidents,
depression, mid-life crisis and BROKEN VOWS are nonetheless REAL COMMON.
Try ENDEMIC.

No woman foresees this imperfection could come to HER door. Your mate
didn't plan on getting an angry, judgmental lady when he chose you, either.
He didnít plan on that flannel nightie thatís fershure. Or that tire around
your waist. That was a surprise --maybe as shocking to HIM as what happened
to YOU when he cheated.

His heart is literally breaking now. His aorta is in a condition of near
RUPTURE. The heart center is bulging, blowing out his own, weak veins. Sure
his habits, his beef or his cigarettes did it too --but people smoke to
PULL SOMETHING IN. They are striving to FIND something that's not in their
life. They are in desperate need to have their private parts strong and
working and the confines of marriage donít give them the stimuli they need
with those plaque-ridden pipes he now has. Their mouths are seeking joy,
and seeking to be BUSY enough to distract them from the whirring brain.
Funny and ironic that what he needs is kisses and nobody in their right
mind would go near a mouth that smelled that bad of tobacco! But this brave
girl heís sleeping with did. WHY did she do it? WHAT is she after? THE DEAL
YOU HAVE and donít seem to realize you have!

All men have this unique problem that women donít have. The need to keep
their parts potent. To exercise it. To dump its fullness somewhere. To
understand that physiological need, you might pretend he has a urinary
disease and has to go to the bathroom a few times an hour. You wouldnít be
screaming at him. But his problem is he has to go to a lady three times a
week. SO he went and he found that trollop. He did the nasty with her and
then got addicted to her lies, her screams of ecstasy (phony as sheís
trying to nail him,) and heís now addicted to the intrigue and the sexual
act both. His body is actually calling for it every few days! You caught
wind of it and totally went bezerk with pain. Would you do that ifit were
just a peepee problem and he went to a toilet a few times an hour? NO! So
get a grip! IT IS JUST A PEE PEE PROBLEM!

But Divorce for a man indulging that impatient little part of his body? Say
good bye to THE GOOD TIMES WITH HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS? Say goodbye to the
walnut tree that your kids need. KISS ALL THAT GOODBYE. When you divorce
the man and he drops dead of shock, the rest of his side of the family and
all your mutual friends will seal you off, permanently. You will be out
crowd. Your kids forgotten, to grow up with no VILLAGE. They will have to
meet and court from singles ads as there will be no huge circle of loving friends.

Think twice, momma. Think three times. Lose the lying lawyer. Get a smart
friend. LikeÖ. your husband maybe? Trust him enough to tell him youíre
stunned, hurt. You might cry a little. You might try sleeping in the nude.
Maybe itís impossible for you to deliver the erotic goods that the happy
hopeful hooker is delivering him now afternoons on her studio apartment floor.

He has given you and your children a gift Ė permanent safety. A delicious
life of fullness. So much fullness that you can share with the homeless and
needy or with your kids. You can give to whomever you please, canít you.
Thatís a nice life.

Well, share it. Indulge his aspiration for a fantasy jolt or twoÖ..relief
from the ache of his own fullness. He wants to give it to whom he wants to
give it. Frankly, Iíd send the gal in question a bag of walnuts with a copy
of this article because sheís a sister, truly she is. Sheís a little
demented, "out ethics", afraid for her future and sheís going the wrong way
at this moment in time. Just like you. Now, if he's abusive in really dangerous
ways, learn HOW TO DIVORCE A BAD MAN.

Just remember: Husbands are like fires. They go out if unattended.
-- Zsa Zsa Gabor

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