and do GOOD for the world.

I was a commoner. I acted classy, dated classy and married a King

You ask, how do I start off on this voyage of marrying a very wealthy man? WELL FIRST, YOU HAVE to care about helping the world because God is not going to help you suckerpunch some billionaire just cuz you're snazzy. God doesn't DO Snazzy. Satan does.

So you have to become as caring, beautiful, educated, cultured, elegant, charming, well mannered and KIND as YOU CAN possibly BE. If something is off .. clumsy manners, ignorance of art and culture, vanity, egotism or something physical, a nose too thick, bumpy, chin so long it belongs to Dorothy's Witch, or too short or too far back .. or teeth crooked or hair frizzy, you have to fix it. You want to have hair that falls in a soft, polished swoop, which it will do if you condition and while hair is damp, use huge curlers. Admittedly, we're POOR so use toilet paper rollers.

If it's a facial feature, get a dermatologist or  fix it with a plastic surgery or fix teeth with orthodonture work. You shouldn't have feelings against nip and tuck doctors. IVANA was a dog til she fixed herself up. Demi was cross-eyed until she had eye surgery.

When I was in high school, there was in my archery class, a girl so beautiful, Nancy...a redhead, the most fab red hair ever. FACE like an angel. BODY perfect. LIKE AN ELEGANT ARLENE DAHL, that actress and beauty writer from the fifties who still does astrology for the tabs.... She was Fernando Lamas wife, Lorenzo's mom and was a DOLL! A PERFECT BEAUTY. WELL NANCY was like that, movie star screen quality level of beauty. I told her, man you are BEYOND BELIEF.

SHE TOLD me that the NOSE was new. And in 1957 surgery was not like today, but hers was perfect. You COULD NOT TELL.  She said she'd been a tubby lardo and had lost 50 lbs. One could not tell. Nothing saggy but of course at l7.?? HAIR color was fake. I COULD NOT TELL.  Looked like a real redhead.

 I wondered what had she looked like before and what was she doing in high school looking like that. SHE DID NOT look like a high school girl. She looked like a New York model. I always wondered what happened to her. SMART GIRL! Nancy Feldman or Felman was her name. Hamilton High School Archery class. SO a fat teen with a big nose is never too young to GET THAT perfection thing going.

Next, SHOW what is great. WHAT is best? BUST LINE? THen cotton jersey shirt under suit or silk clingy tees, like a pongee tee. A dress or blouse might have clingy, soft bias silk. or stripes which enhance shape. Sew one yourself! BIAS fabrics hang better on a trim body! USE style/fashion to consistently, every time you are in public,  SHOW what's good. THAT is what gives you the EYE BALL OOGLE-GOOD STATISTIC. Wear grunge, ten times you go out, ten times gives you no statistic. WEAR pongee silk T's, ten times you go out gives you 20 men wanting dates. PICK the ones that are hot. Remember, a beauty has to remember the rule, date a hundred frogs to find one you'd kiss; kiss l00 frogs to find one you'd marry.

With the 100x100 rule we COMBINE Statistical edge with a locational edge and you get an incrementally bigger better statistic. Pictures this. TEN TIMES you eat at Mcdonalds, you meet 10 jerks date ten, fall in love with one, waste years.

TEN TIMES you go to a USED BOOK SHOP you find 10 male readers who don't want to spend 30$ a book. You will have only high I.Q friends. Ten times you go to Barnes & NOBLE you meet l0 men who have deep pockets but spend like crazy. Ten times you eat at LE PETITE AUBERGE you meet ten 2billion-and-up income guys.  THESE are guys whom you will not waste time with just dating the, so date all ten and let them fight among themselves about who marries you. SO WHERE do we get books? USED BOOK SHOPS for geniuses. Where DO WE EAT?????? THE FRENCH CAFE near the FINANCIAL DISTRICT, MIDDAY, ALONE.

So what if a salad is 8$ at the Petite Auberge! It's worth it!  TEN TIMES YOU GO OUT and it's 80$, there's at least a million dollar PAY OFF there and elsewhere those ten meals maybe are a buck fifty but they DO NOT PAY OFF! AND beef and white bread aren't good for you. So WHICH is truly the VALUE MEAL?

So love like anything is 'location, location, location.' Knowing where the hunting zone is gives you the edge, makes your man have the right profile for happy living, the right brains.  So give THOUGHT to the location and what you look like when you go there. A tight t shirt and jeans is about as sexy as it gets, but not a loose T SHIRT, you want a tight shirt showing off the bust. A bias skirt which CLINGS showing off the small waist and shape of HIP. SHORT SKIRT showing just little of knee, and calf/LEG. THESE are all good. French heels, never those high heels that say 'slut seeking buck.'

THINK STATISTIC, THINK LOCATION of cafe or resort or country club location and think location on body that gives a better statistic. SHOW SOMETHING that you have that is great. THAT is what gives a better statistic of men falling for you on sight. MEN fall in love with their eyes. Women with their ears.

The JAPANESE consider showing the back of the neck nape of neck to be so hot. THAT's their fave "location". the Asian ladies have white skin there, so the kimono reveals that cleavage in back there and men fall in love.

HERE in USA I think show very athletic finely honed, muscular, trim shape of torso. NEXT, show calves, legs, skirts better than trousers. Though for play, the well cut blue jean ...excellent as it shows the hip to waist ratio and exact shape of entire baby production machine. butt hipline pelvis, trim thighs. WELL CUT JEANS are good but the places we women WEAR THOSE JEANS AT ARE NO GOOD! PUBLIC PARKS. MALLS. NO GADZILLIONAIRES AT EITHER PLACE! Ergo, totally useless! WE are not after the guys hanging in public parks! SO can the blue jeans for a while.

THE IDEA is to hang the places where the super rich go. THEY DO NOT GO WHERE POOR PEOPLE GO EVER. To them it's not amusing to do so, not Dept stores not Big Mac Joints. THEY find our world grim, horrific. They are off with their own kind at country clubs. THEY HAVE what are called ENCLAVES. IN NEW YORK I was invited to lunch at a private club. Best dining room, only members can bring in guests. So you want to meet members of private clubs. THEY are at the METROPOLITAN MUSEUM looking at the new collection or MOMA. Or at solar resorts near the city, at the most posh hotel. LUCKILY a gal can crash a big posh 400$ a day room hotel. YOU GO any time in day with swimsuit in your purse, go to ladies' room near pool, not in dining area! and swim/ sun all day. MR. BILLIONAIRE at some point during conversation says 'are you staying here, you say " I couldn't afford the room." WHo knows, he may treat you to one. Tell him it's not necessary.

Always FEEL PROSPEROUS with what you have and are. That is a good note when hanging with the billionaires. They find it fresh. THEY would not be happy in your shoes, but that you ARE is truly heartening to them.

HOW TO DRESS. Town and Country magazine, Vogue but not Bazaar. - Own the classic little black dress. Socialites are required to attend lots of public events, including fancy weddings on East Hampton or ritzy benefits in Manhattan. The classic staple is the little black dress. Every socialite most own a timeless, black dress with a great cut. Make sure your little black dress is made by a well-known designer, such as Marc Jacob or Gucci, for true socialite authenticity.

Do most of your WINDOW shopping on Fifth Avenue. Fifth Avenue has all of the quintessential stores for a proper Upper East Side socialite. Everything from Prada to Miu Miu to Saks Fifth Avenue. If it isn't high end designer style, it's not fit for a socialite. Almost all of your shopping needs can be found on Fifth Avenue, although there are many designer boutiques located downtown in Soho. But don't shop there. Find a Vogue pattern and make it  yourself.

Don't buy your makeup at Bergdorf Goodman or Henri Bendel. It may be important that a socialite own the highest quality of makeup and beauty supplies but not you. You can get your stuff out of the fridge or Beauty Supply.  For example, Creme de la Mer moisturizer can run up to $500 a jar and is available at only the highest quality department stores, such as the above mentioned. Coconut oil in a huge jar at Hindu or middle eastern mall market is 6$

Acquire a designer bag by hitting a resale shop. A proper socialite is never seen without an authentic designer bag, such as the classic Louis Vuitton monogram canvas bag. These handbags can cost you from a few hundred to even thousands of dollars. Another good Upper East Side socialite bag is Hermes' Birkin Bag, which can cost a socialitie from $500, usually, but up to $5,000. Some are ten times that amount. If you do not have that type of cash to spare, Coach or Dooney & Burke bags are quality bags and you can purchase them for a lot less (around $300).But RESALE shops are the way to go. 15$ flat.

Get perfectly coiffed hair. A socialite always has perfectly updated and styled hair. Highlights are always fresh and performed at a reputable salon such as Serge Normant or Rita Hazan (hairstylist for none other than pop star Jessica Simpson). An Upper East Side socialite would never dare go out in public with visible roots or an outdated hairstyle. You have no money now so HIT THE POSH SHOP once and see how they do everything.  See the exact product & recipe to get your hair colored, see the tech to cut, and style. First time only at only the most posh salons in Manhattan. From then on, DIY! Dying hair isn't rocket science.

HOW TO GIVE A PARTY Learn the table setting rules. Forks to the left, fish on far left, Knives to the right. etc.


How to BEHAVE like a SOCIALITE: http://www.wikihow.com/Become-a-Socialite
and http://www.writtenvoices.com/article_display.php?article_id=942


   1. Too much perfume
      Acquire a signature scent and keep it subtle. "Unless the person you're speaking with is in hugging range, they should not be able to smell you." said a genius once.

   2. Lipstick on your teeth
      Keep lips in tip-top condition with gentle sugar scrubs and hydrating balms to avoid bleeding lipstick. After applying lipstick, blot, then move your finger in and out of your mouth. Excess lippie will come off on your finger rather than your teeth.

   3. Blender bender
      Dior's national make-up artist, Sarah Wallbank, says bad blending is bad beauty manners, "from obvious foundation lines to badly drawn bat wing eyeliner. Or worse, MAGIC MARKER lines.These mistakes make it obvious you're wearing make-up and detract from your natural beauty." Wallbank advises testing foundation on your jaw line. Apply with a foundation brush and begin in the centre of the face, working upwards. For a perfect pout, lip liner needs to match lipstick and be applied all over to avoid the dreaded outline.

   4. Dark roots
      Blondes can use dry shampoo or talc to minimise dark roots but, says colourist Simon Bright, "Being a blonde is no excuse for not getting roots touched up. The new vogue for roots showing is grunge.WEIRD and unsavory to men raised by conservative mothers.

   5.  Bad fake tan
      "Get the basics right," says Shelley Barrett, ModelCo founder. "Choose a self-tan with a blue-green base to guard against orange skin. Self-tan should be applied in front of a mirror to exfoliated, clean skin."Most of us can't handle fake tans, so forget about it. White is right.

   6. Chipped nail polish
      If you haven't managed a mani-pedi for months, remove chipped polish and leave fingernails natural until you can get to the salon. Cover toes with SHOES.

  7. No mirror should be seen in public. If you think you should powder your nose, go to the ladies' room. NEVER let a man see you apply cosmetics. EVER. Even the morning after. Better go without than be seen applying.

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